tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-250165332425049471.post8830187364323230040..comments2023-10-26T03:45:18.919-07:00Comments on Chicago Plus One: Boyfriend DreadVikki Ortizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05980742523126385597noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-250165332425049471.post-15929631913011580172008-05-20T14:29:00.000-07:002008-05-20T14:29:00.000-07:00No one forced the guy to buy you a drink, therefor...No one forced the guy to buy you a drink, therefore there are no expectations from you. A good gesture but not required is to buy him one back from afar or when leaving. It isn't required nor looked down upon if you don't. <BR/><BR/>This act doesn't venture into the dating 101 guide of mine. Guy asks girl out, they go and he pays and is expected to pay. If girl offers to pay for something, that does score points, but not expected nor required nor would I accept the money. <BR/><BR/>2nd date is the same thing. But if no gesture at all after two dates, I'd have to really like her to consider a third date, w/o even a get the tip gesture.And most of the time that would probably be a "no."Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09390914916496206532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-250165332425049471.post-56451382583190372542008-05-17T10:39:00.000-07:002008-05-17T10:39:00.000-07:00Schlitz guy handled it well. I've seen guys get ti...Schlitz guy handled it well. I've seen guys get ticked off and start complaining about the money they "wasted" buying a taken woman a drink.James Burnetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09473394820537351385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-250165332425049471.post-49252356890061218332008-05-16T10:36:00.000-07:002008-05-16T10:36:00.000-07:00I hope you blog about a fun trip!When I was... you...I hope you blog about a fun trip!<BR/><BR/>When I was... younger and single, I just always bought the guy a beer back. I never accepted free drinks - period. So I guess, I would just say, relax - enjoy the beer and buy back before you go.wfbdogloverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04292569844236538888noreply@blogger.com